Overcoming Relapse: Tools and Techniques for Getting Clean

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Relapse is a common challenge faced by individuals in recovery from addiction. In fact, it is a natural part of the recovery process. Some people assume that cases of relapse are failures, but they are merely a part of the road to recovery.

Relapses should be both prepared for and treated with kindness, because a relapse doesn’t mean we’re at the end of the road, but merely a small detour that will soon right itself back to the course toward a happy and healthy life. Any relapse can be dealt with using tools and techniques, whether you’re in the early stages of recovery or have been on the road to recovery for some time.

In this blog, we will discuss various practical and effective tools and techniques for overcoming relapse and maintaining long-term recovery. Read on to learn more about overcoming relapse, and equip yourself so that you can use them on yourself or those you care about to help get back on track.

Tools and Techniques for Dealing with Relapse

Relapse can be defined as a setback that involves returning to old, destructive behaviors or patterns of thinking after a period of abstinence or progress toward recovery. While relapse can be disheartening and demotivating, it is important to recognize that it is a normal part of the recovery process. This means that, as a normal part of recovery, most recovery processes take into account that relapse can and will occur and offer tools and techniques to help those who are dealing with the relapse get back on course.

The key to overcoming relapse is to learn tools and techniques that can help prevent it and manage it effectively when it does occur. These tools and techniques may include identifying personal triggers that can lead to relapse, building a strong support system, practicing mindfulness and self-care, developing coping strategies, and more. The number of tools and techniques are as vast as the number of people who are on the road to recovery, as no two people are alike and therefore might need different tools than others.

Learning and implementing these tools and techniques early on is best, as relapses can have serious consequences—both physically and mentally. Instances of relapse can erode self-esteem, damage relationships, lead to financial problems, and even cause physical harm. By learning how to prevent and manage relapse, individuals in recovery can increase their chances of long-term success and achieve a fulfilling and healthy life.

Understanding Triggers

Triggers are internal or external stimuli that can cause a strong emotional or physical response, which can lead to relapse in individuals in recovery. Triggers can be anything—a person, place, situation, thought, or feeling—that can activate a craving or urge to use drugs or engage in other destructive behaviors. Triggers can be strong or weak, and different triggers can work together to make a relapse occur.

Identifying triggers can help in the process of recovery as it helps individuals anticipate and manage situations that may lead to relapse. While, like the tools and techniques themselves, no one’s triggers are the same and there can be many, some examples of common triggers include stress, boredom, loneliness, anger, anxiety, depression, social situations, and peer pressure. If someone is addicted to a certain substance, for example, and they go to a party where the substance is present and is offered to them, that can act as a trigger and result in a relapse.

Once individuals have identified their personal triggers, they can then learn techniques for managing them effectively. Triggers are unique and can be tricky to pinpoint as they can constantly shift and change in their strength depending on where someone is on the road to recovery. One technique for dealing with triggers is to avoid them altogether. This may involve avoiding certain places or people that may trigger a relapse or changing one’s daily routine to reduce exposure to triggers. This can be difficult to do depending on a person’s living circumstances, though, and isn’t a cure-all for everyone. Luckily, similarly to how triggers can work in tandem to make a relapse happen, techniques for dealing with triggers can also be used together to help deal with triggers and avoid the temptation of relapsing.

Another technique is to develop coping strategies for dealing with triggers when they do occur. This may include deep breathing, meditation, exercise, or engaging in a healthy activity that can provide a sense of relief and distraction. Considering how likely it is to find something that is triggering, this can be a good way to help deal with triggers, as they can then be overcome before it reaches the relapse stage.

Building a Strong Support System

Building a strong support system is important not only for creating a safety net for the recovery process but also for overcoming or avoiding relapse. A support system can be defined as a network of individuals who provide emotional, practical, and sometimes financial support to someone in recovery. Whether the person in recovery is dealing with obstacles, setbacks, or even just planning for long-term success, a strong support system can help.

If you’re planning to build a strong support system, start by identifying individuals who can provide support in various areas of your life, such as family members, friends, peers, and professionals. Maintaining a strong support system involves communicating regularly, expressing needs and concerns, and setting clear boundaries. Even for those who are not dealing with addiction, creating strong relationships with friends, coworkers, and family is a great way to create a healthy social circle.

Tips for building and maintaining a support system include the following:

  • Reach Out to Family and Friends
    • Friends and family members can provide invaluable support and encouragement during the recovery process.
  • Join a Support Group
    • Support groups can provide a sense of community and belonging, as well as opportunities for sharing experiences and receiving advice. Contact treatment services in your area and see what local support groups you can join.
  • Seek Professional Help
    • Professional therapy or counseling, can provide a safe and supportive environment to explore personal challenges and develop coping strategies.
  • Consider Alternative Forms of Support
    • Alternative forms of support, such as meditation, yoga, or spiritual practices, can also provide emotional and spiritual support.

Types of support available include emotional support, which involves providing a listening ear and emotional validation; practical support, which involves assisting with everyday tasks such as transportation or housing; and financial support, which may involve providing financial assistance or guidance on managing finances. Think about what type of support would best benefit you—and the answer might be all of the above—to create a support system that is strong enough to help you face any issues you face along your recovery journey, including relapses.

Mindfulness and Self-Care

Mindfulness and self-care are essential components of recovery from addiction or other challenging life circumstances. Mindfulness can be defined as the practice of being present in the moment and aware of one’s thoughts, feelings, and surroundings without judgment or distraction. Self-care involves caring for one’s physical, emotional, and spiritual needs to promote overall well-being.

Incorporating mindfulness and self-care practices into daily life can be incredibly beneficial for individuals in recovery. Mindfulness can help individuals manage stress, reduce anxiety and depression, and improve their overall mental health. Self-care can help individuals develop a strong sense of self-esteem, increase their confidence, and promote overall physical and emotional health.

Techniques for practicing mindfulness and self-care include the following:

  • Meditation
    • Meditation involves focusing one’s attention on a particular object or thought, such as the breath, to increase awareness and promote relaxation.
  • Yoga
    • Yoga combines physical postures, breathing exercises, and meditation to promote physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
  • Exercise
    • Regular exercises such as jogging, cycling, or swimming can promote physical health, reduce stress, and improve mood.
  • Journaling
    • Journaling involves writing down thoughts, feelings, and experiences to promote self-reflection, self-awareness, and personal growth.
  • Creative Activities
    • Creative activities, such as painting, drawing, or playing music, can provide a sense of fulfillment, promote relaxation, and increase self-esteem.
  • Setting Boundaries
    • Setting boundaries involves learning to say no to unhealthy behaviors or situations that may lead to relapse and prioritizing one’s own needs and well-being.

Developing Coping Strategies

Coping strategies are the tools and techniques that individuals use to manage challenging or stressful situations. Developing effective coping strategies involves identifying personal strengths, building resilience, and learning new skills.

Techniques for developing effective coping strategies include the following:

  • Self-Reflection
    • Self-reflection involves taking time to reflect on personal experiences, emotions, and behaviors to gain insight into personal strengths and weaknesses.
  • Identifying Triggers
    • Identifying triggers involves identifying situations, people, or events that may lead to relapse or other challenging behaviors.
  • Building Resilience
    • Building resilience involves developing the ability to bounce back from challenging situations, learning new skills, and developing healthy coping mechanisms.

Examples of coping strategies for different situations include the following:

  • Coping with Stress
    • Coping with stress involves developing healthy coping mechanisms such as exercise, meditation, and relaxation techniques. These can help individuals manage stress and reduce the risk of relapse.
  • Coping with Triggers
    • Coping with triggers involves developing strategies such as avoiding certain situations, seeking support from a trusted individual, and developing a plan of action to manage triggers.
  • Coping with Negative Emotions
    • Coping with negative emotions involves developing healthy coping mechanisms such as practicing self-care, expressing emotions through writing or art, and seeking professional help.
  • Coping with Cravings
    • Coping with cravings involves developing a plan of action, such as distracting oneself with other activities, seeking support from a trusted individual, and using mindfulness techniques to manage the craving.

Seeking Professional Help

Seeking professional help is a critical component of the recovery process for many individuals. Professional help may be necessary when an individual is struggling with addiction or mental health issues that they cannot manage on their own.

Northbound Addiction Treatment Center offers a range of professional help options for individuals struggling with addiction and mental health issues. Some of the types of professional help available include (but are not limited to) the following:

  • Detox Services
    • Detox services provide individuals with a safe and supportive environment to manage withdrawal symptoms when they stop using drugs or alcohol.
  • Inpatient Treatment
    • Inpatient treatment involves staying at a residential facility for a while to receive intensive therapy and support.
  • Outpatient Treatment
    • Outpatient treatment involves attending therapy and support sessions while living at home and maintaining daily responsibilities. Northbound Addiction Treatment Center also offers a partial hospitalization program for those in-between needing inpatient and outpatient treatment.
  • Dual Diagnosis Treatment
    • Dual diagnosis treatment involves addressing both addiction and mental health issues simultaneously, as these conditions are often closely linked.
  • Aftercare Support
    • Aftercare support involves ongoing support and resources for individuals after they have completed a formal treatment program, to help them maintain their recovery. This is a great step for helping deal with the possibility of relapse.

Choosing the right professional help involves identifying the specific needs and goals of the individual seeking help and finding a program that can meet those needs. Factors to consider when choosing professional help may include the severity of the addiction or mental health issue, the type of support and therapy that are needed, and your personal preferences and goals.

When seeking professional help, it is also important to consider factors such as the level of support and resources available, the cost, and insurance options. By carefully researching and selecting the right professional help, individuals needing support can receive the resources and guidance they need to overcome addiction and mental health issues and achieve lasting recovery.

For those in recovery, know that you are not alone in your journey. Recovery is possible, and with perseverance, dedication, and the right tools and techniques, you can achieve lasting sobriety and mental wellness. Keep pushing forward, and remember to take it one day at a time. Also remember that recovery is a journey, and setbacks and struggles are a normal part of the process. However, by utilizing the tools and techniques we discussed, individuals can overcome challenges and continue to make progress toward their goals.

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Written by: Ryan Snodgrass, LMFT, LPCC

— Reviewed by: Paul Alexander, CEO

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